There are many men even middle-aged men are still immature in their inside instead that they looks very mature in appearance. Theire immaturity embodies in their behaviors and minds.
Those who are immature will make people around them live in a very tired way. And even those people themsevles don’t know about their immaturity and why they live in such a way. Here 5 obvious features of men’s immaturity are introduced. If you find that you have any of these features, please try your best to get rid of them.
1. Requires instant rewards
Men who are immature always require instant rewards as long as they have make their own efforts. Those people are just like kids aged 4 or 5 and they can only find shallow benefits of their own. They don’t understand that one should seed in spring and gain in autumn. Some men requires instant reward soon after they start learning something new such as learning piano or English. Once they don’t find any rewards, they’ve try to give up what they are learning. Some people even want to give up their new job not a long before they’ve started to do the job. Some may give up a new job within three months, some may do that within half a year and some in a year. Carrying on in this way, they’ll form a habit like a loser.
In your life, you have to give out something in order to get something. If you want to gain time, you need to give your time first and if you want to earn money, you’d better give money out at first. If you want to be happy, try to be a person make others happy first.
2. Men who don’t want to change yourself.
There are many men who have bad habits like gambling and drinking. Though they do know those habits are not good for themselves, why still they don’t want to make any changes? Those men are always lazy and they would like to tolerate sufferings in an environment familar to them rather than bravely face the unknown to change themselves.
3. Men who like discussing about others’ business.
There are always men who like discussing abotu others’ business, or gossiping in another way. There’s an old saying goes in this way: “People who like gossiping others are people tend to arouse gossips themselves.”
4. Men who are always negative and like complaining.
What kind of men have you ever met in your life? Is there anyone who like complaining this or that? Is there anyone who is always happly. Those who are always shall change their minds in this way in a certain way.
5. Always affected by their own emotion.
There are five key factors affecting success of a business man.
1) The ability to control your emotion;
2) Healthy body;
3) The ability to manage your time;
4) The ability to manage your finance.
If you want to be successful, you must control those five factors as above. Why the ability to control your emotion ranks number 1 while healh number 2? Think about it, if you don’t have the ability to manage your own emotion, your health will be negatively affected. Nowadays, one’s success depends 20% on his IQ while 80% on this EQ.
6. Unwilling to learn new knowledge and being arrogant.
Some people may feel that they are just good in the current moment and they’re always unwilling to see their true selves. They even like to defame and deny new things in their daily life. It’s really sad that they just remain at the same growth step in their whole life.
In this knowledge era, continuous learning is the only pass leading to a better future of yourself. You may be abandoned by our society currently unless you are willing to learn new things in a continous way.
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