You can find some signs if you are in the wrong relationship. Here several signs you’re in the wrong relationship are given as reference. You could check and reflect yourself. Hope you’re lucky enough to avoid being involved in any of the following signs and enjoy your relationship everyday.
1.His family are not keen on you.
Know this one is tricky because you and your partner may be completely happy but for one reason or the other, his family may not approve of the relationship. My advice is to be very careful and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance if you're in a relationship where your potential in-laws aren't too keen on you. Yes, your relationship is predominantly about the two of you but never underestimate the importance of having family support.
2.Your family / close friends are not too keen on him.
They say love is ‘blind’, and it is true to an extent. If the people that are closest to you and love you the most are not keen on the person you’re in a relationship with, it should cause you to think twice. And if they love you enough to be completely honest and tell you the truth, you really need to pay attention, they may be seeing something that you're not.
3. Being with them makes you feel inadequate.
If you feel like you have to act / speak / dress a certain way to please your partner, or to gain their affection, you're in the wrong relationship. You should be free to be yourself. Yes, the right person should make you want to be better and improve in all areas of life, but this should not come at the cost of losing your own personality and what makes you unique.
4. You find yourself compromising on your values and your morals just to keep them happy.
If spending time with someone leads you to start doing things you wouldn't normally do, for example, things that go against your personal beliefs and your faith, you need to take a step bade and consider whether that relationship is really worth it.
5. The relationship thins you and you feel like you're giving too much and not getting anything in return.
It’s like having a bank account. If someone's constantly making with drawals and no deposits, you’ll soon find yourself in the red, and whilst this sometimes happens, it is especially true and can happen physically and emotionally too. A healthy relationship is one where both parties add to the relationship and grow together. It is not one-sided.
You know it yourself and you keep thinking of a way out. Sometimes, we know the truth and just want someone to spell it out for us. This is me trying to spell it out for you. You owe it to yourself to not spend another day in a relationship that you know isn't what God wants for you.
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