Women are sensitive and emotional creatures. Be gentle about the whole thing. The idea of a good experience of sex is not mercilessly pounding at your woman’s vagina. That is a caveman's concept of having sex. You are a fine gentleman. You have to be more than a man-meat. You cannot expect your woman to be content with your mere rushing through the whole process. Women are sensitive creatures. They are not sex toys to be used and thrown aside. Remember that a woman is turned on more by a man’s varying pace and sensible nature during the act than by his visor or strength. Make sure that your thrusting is not too harsh or sudden. Sometimes your woman may feel cramps and seizures in her private parts owing to constant pounding. This may result from incessant humping. Do not commit that mistake. Make the experience more romantic than sexual. Pay good attention to her moans and moods. Sometimes woman tend to communicate with you during sex. Learn to read your woman’s body language during the act. If she is being visibly uncomfortable during it, pause to ask her if she is okay with your pace. If she replies in negative, vary your speed accordingly. Play some music in the background to help you with maintaining the right pace. Jazz may help, as it is a slow yet soulful form of music. A pop song when played makes you pound your woman without any stopping. Avoid choosing metal songs as they are fit for only boys’ night outs and concerts.
Do not ignore the clitoral stimulation part of sex. A woman’s most sensitive sexual part is her clitoris whose sole purpose is to provide her sexual pleasure of the highest order. Learn how to incite her using clitoral stimulation. It is known to be present on the upper side of the vaginal wall, generally between the vaginal tract and the urethra. One good way to locate the clarets is to insert your index finger inside your woman’s vagina and making a curling action that resembles asking someone to come towards you. You will likely brush against a rippled mini structure of muscle. You have just found the female clitoris. However, once found, it must be aroused by mere touching. You can choose to play with it to arouse your lady. You have to keep in mind that the clitoris is the most sensual and the most delicate part of the female reproductive system. Do not scratch against it relentlessly in your attempts to arouse her.
Intercourse is not the only way for a woman to reach her orgasmic stage. It is a gross misconception among men that the only plausible way to make sure that their women reach the land of the big O is by insertion of their penises. There are other and better ways of making your woman satisfied in bed. Digital penetration for example, refers to the insertion of fingers in the vaginal tract so as to make the woman reach her orgasm. It is a great way to make your woman moan by mere use of fingers. Similarly, you can also try prostate orgasm. It is the sexual arousal of the anus of the woman that assists in the regular orgasm. Another amazing way men tend to ignore is tongue-induced orgasm. The human tongue is a great tool. Women simply go crazy when a man goes down on them. There are a lot of women who successfully and regularly achieve orgasms by the use of tongues by their men. There are two forms of tongue usage- first; licking the outer part of the vagina- this refers to the use of tongue on the skin of the exterior vagina. The second way to use your tongue is by inserting the tip of your tongue into the vaginal tract. Both the ways have been proved to be extremely sensual and arousing.
Do not skip the seduction part of the entire experience. Most women are turned off by their men ignoring the most brilliant process of seduction. It is just like lifting heavy weights on the first day of your gym. You cannot do that without developing cramps. Sex is nothing different. You have to make the whole experience romantic, sensual and appealing. Skipping straight to the part where you rip each other’s clothes to indulge in regular penetration is not the way to go about doing it. As it has been stressed a lot of times, women are sensitive and emotional creatures. They appreciate it when their men take care to woo them wholesomely.
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